“Have the courage to take action. Society is ready to change.”
Marking the
International Day of the Girl Child, Hina Jilani calls on the international community and civil society to work together to improve the lives of girls and women.
In the international community we talk about the family as being the
basic unit of society. Today we see that the family has become the
biggest locus of violence, especially against women and children.
If we do not address issues like
child marriage,
we will never expect the family – or allow it – to become a unit which
is able to give dignity and equality to all its members.
Challenging culture and tradition
We need to correct the perception that any harmful practice is a part
of what we call culture and tradition, which people can be proud of.
Harmful practices should not be equated with culture and tradition.
Even if some parts of the world consider harmful practices a part of
culture or tradition, we must remember that those who are harmed by
these cultural and traditional practices are women.
Are women not a part of that society? Are they only subjects of culture, with no hand in making culture?
Culture and tradition in themselves evolve out of historical changes.
They should not be allowed to become obstructions to change.
International community: have the courage to act
Local and international actors need to understand that child marriage
is an issue that has gone from the local to the international. It is
not an issue that the international community is using or is imposing on
national and local communities.
There are political movements in these countries. I come from such a
movement. We don't deal with figures; we leave that to UNICEF and the
United Nations. We deal with actual lives, so we are not talking about
child marriage and its effects on society, and on girls and women in the
abstract. We have faces to show you; we have victims to put before you;
and our society has seen those faces.
The international community needs to know that any initiative to
eliminate and curb child marriage will receive the weight of those
movements behind it.
Have the courage to take action. Society is ready to change – and accept change.
In Pakistan – my country – about two decades ago, there were a
significant number of people, myself included who were trying to resist
state-sponsored trends, trends which would have decimated women’s and
girls’ rights. Instead, there have been legal reforms on child marriage,
progressively making it better for women and girls. It’s still
inadequate, but when these positive reforms were implemented, there was
no resistance from the broader society.
We must work together
Governments should make sure that they have courage to take the step,
to ensure that they are not being overcautious. They must not submit to
the influence of interest groups, of religious lobbies, of conservative
lobbies. This is not the time to either become an apologist or be
defensive, or over-romanticise what is certainly something which has
proved to be –
figures have proved it, data has proved it, research has proved it – definitely harmful for the world’s population, whether they are girls or women.
It is time that local and national movements – and international
initiatives – become mutually reinforcing and strengthening. We need to
work together to ensure that local initiatives and movements do have an
impact. Because local pressure as well as international pressure can
force governments to change. To make sure that state social policy and
the weight of state social policy is put behind laws – so that these
laws have impact.
The work for the defence of human rights must prioritise the welfare and the protection of the girl child.
Governments have the duty to protect. At the same time, civil society also has the duty to promote and defend human rights.
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| The Elders were impressed that men in nearby Ambo Meske village were
willing to discuss gender equality. Many men have taken part in courses
that raise issues such as family care, non-violence, alcohol abuse and
sharing domestic duties. |
