It's a simple dictum, but one that many still have trouble accepting:
 Israelis and Palestinians have to talk to each other if they're going 
to get anywhere.
A flurry of condemnation greeted the tweeting by Ha'aretz reporter Natasha Mozgovaya of 
a photograph of Ziad Asali, President of the American Task Force on Palestine (ATFP), at a recent "Independence Day" event held by the Israeli Embassy. ATFP's 
critics' outrage proves that, from the 
right and the 
left they either 
fail or refuse to comprehend this dictum or the basic mission of the Task Force.
ATFP was founded to advocate that it is in the American national 
interest to end the occupation and establish a Palestinian state 
alongside Israel in peace, security and dignity. It is not opposed to 
Israel, but it is opposed to the occupation. This is consistent with 
stated American, UN, Palestinian and Arab League policies.
ATFP is an American organization and works within the political 
system to secure a goal that is in American interests, as well as those 
of the Palestinians and Israel.
And in terms of gaining a real measure of influence in the policy 
conversation in Washington, it has been an unprecedented and unexpected 
success, especially by deftly advocating for Palestine with Israel as a 
partner, rather than a target.
The basis of this success is that serious people on all sides talk to
 Asali. They know that other serious people also talk to him, frankly, 
seriously and respectfully.
ATFP works to bring Palestinians and Americans closer together, and 
to maintain strong relations with Palestinian and American leaders and 
working relations with Israeli officials. This is the only approach that
 anyone based in the United States who seriously wants to achieve 
anything practical for peace, or to improve the lives of Palestinians, 
can actually take.
Mozgovaya's photograph merely reconfirms what ATFP has always openly 
and frankly pursued: a public and strategic display of continued contact
 with the Israeli establishment to promote the goals of peace and ending
 the occupation. Those who think there is a military solution are 
welcome to pursue it. Others may hide their activities, or pander to a 
lowest common denominator, but ATFP has consistently and publicly 
maintained those relationships and contacts.
This is hardly the first Israeli or Jewish-American event attended by
 ATFP officials, and it won't be the last. Israeli officials and 
pro-Israel Jewish-Americans have attended every ATFP annual gala, 
sitting alongside Palestinian activists and Arab diplomats in some of 
the most extraordinary Middle East policy gatherings to have ever taken 
place in Washington. Such meetings have always been based on mutual 
respect and dignity.
Asali is a trailblazer and a visionary. His approach has been 
controversial, but driven by the watchwords of seriousness, credibility 
and integrity, he has not shied away from taking bold positions and 
making difficult choices precisely because they are necessary for 
progress.
Asali's critics need to ask themselves what the Palestinians and 
their allies can possibly achieve without talking to, and ultimately 
making an agreement with, the Israelis.
The status quo is clear: occupation. Asali's mission is to change that status quo.
Ever since he became the President of the American-Arab 
Anti-Discrimination Committee in 2001, and then President of ATFP, which
 he founded in 2003, Asali has not drawn a single penny in salary or 
other compensation. This extraordinary, and in my experience 
unparalleled, commitment, led the late Edward Said to 
aptly describe him
 as a public-spirited physician who voluntarily gave up his medical 
practice to run the organization on a pro bono basis. That this has 
continued for no less than twelve years in the face of unrelenting, and 
often personal and vituperative, criticismâ??and without any prospect or
 expectation of personal gain tells you all you need to know about his 
character and integrity.
Asali has led ATFP in reaching out not only to US officials and 
Arab-American organizations but also Jewish-American groups across the 
political spectrum. ATFP has angered many by refusing to become 
embroiled in political squabbles, particularly between rival 
Jewish-American organizations. Under Asali, it pursues its mission with 
scrupulous independence, and declines to serve as a prop in anyone 
else's dramas.
Asali has proven that Palestinian-Americans can work within the 
system as first-class American citizens. Washington has paid attention.
Secretaries of State 
Rice from the Bush administration and 
Clinton from the Obama administration
 have addressed ATFP galas, attended by a who's who of the Washington 
Middle East policy establishment. A 2009 letter from Rep. Howard L. 
Berman (D-CA), then Chairman of the House Committee on Foreign Affairs, 
attested
 that Asali and ATFP "have been an important influence on my own 
thinking about Middle East peacemaking and that of many of my colleagues
 in the Congress."
Asali and ATFP have been instrumental in changing perceptions of the 
PA institution-building program.within the government and foreign policy
 establishment by persuasively arguing that is a strategic and political
 initiative, not just a development program. ATFP has been active and 
effective in helping to secure continued American aid to the PA 
following the UN membership bid last September.
The Palestine Liberation Organization recognized Israel in 1993. 
Palestinian officials meet with Israeli officials on a regular basis. It
 makes no sense whatsoever for Palestinian-Americans to refuse to talk 
with Jewish-American groups, or with Israeli officials, they do not 
fully agree with.
It is what we say that really counts, and ATFP expresses the same message, no matter the language, medium or interlocutor.
By condemning Asali for such meetings, his critics are attacking 
someone who talks the talk and walks the walk. Such critics will be 
taken seriously only when they do the same. If they do not like ATFP, 
they should establish their own organizations, rather than tear down the
 Task Force, a disturbing phenomenon thoroughly excavated in Said's 
article cited above. They should be ashamed of their shallow, petty, and
 often vicious narrow-mindedness.
And, most importantly, they need to accept this inescapable reality: we need to talk.